Love and Heal: Reiki and Healing Hurt Feelings

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Feelings are like water they come and go a temporary state, a fluid state of emotions. Water or emotions if remain in the same state for long can begin to stink e.g: rain water collected in a pond and never cleaned, dirt is absorbed and affects the overall being. It is strange that people who love you sometimes also tend to hurt our feelings. Hurt can be by mere words in form of mockery, abusive words, judgement, criticism which leaves deep scars.

Typically these words affect the mind and keep hovering and lead to bitterness. In healing systems mainly, each hurt or painful words affect our specific chakra and it tends to get unbalanced and affects us. e.g: hurtful words for character tend to affect the hara chakra i.e: one questions ones relationship with others, sexuality issues, lack of expression.

For now lets look at how to heal your hurt feelings ( quite a task can take days/months /years cos this to form a better relationship with own self):-

Evaluate your feelings-. Understand if this your own feeling or projection of other persons feelings or you past emotional state e.g: words like " your good for nothing" can trigger feelings of repressed childhood memories or have an impact that one becomes overtly competitive etc.It very important to understand to what extend. Suggested therapies- Letter writing, meditation, working or inviting messages from Archangel Ariel and Sandalphon, healing front and back third eye chakra and throat chakra along with back root chakra.
Purpose- In Hinduism it is understood that everything happens for a reason mainly karmic which may or may not be related to past lives. Looking in the real practical world too there are triggers in our lives some in form of hurtful words change our lives or make us find a new self. How you found that new self is what you have to understand. e.g: a girl child who is consistently verbally abused tends to get bitter and eventually works hard and becomes a scholar etc. Suggested Therapies- Past Life regression therapy , Hypnotherapy, working or inviting messages Archangel Raziel and Zadkiel , healing the crown chakra, front and back third eye chakra and root chakra.
Forgiveness- " Forgive and Forget" is the biggest mantra and solution for most of the issues. Though it is easier said than done. It better to not enslave oneself with past hurt feelings. After forgiveness too feelings of hatred will come back best is not resent but acknowledge it without resistance. Suggested Therapies- Cord Cutting, working or inviting messages from Archangel Raphael, writing hurt incident on paper and healing it with Reiki and burning it, healing Front and back Heart chakra, Music Therapy
Pray - Pray for healing. Time is sometimes the best healer.Additionally heal the crown chakra with selenite crystal.