Tuesday, 29 May 2012

Cope and Reason for Hope

Picasso (artist),Mark Vonnegut (son of the writer Kurt Vonnegut), John Nash (mathematician, winner of the Nobel Prize in economics and subject of the book and movie A Beautiful Mind) Syd Barrett (founder of Pink Floyd),Buddy Bolden (jazz pioneer),Eduard Einstein (son of Albert Einstein) are a few famous people who had Schizophrenia and yet were successful.
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It was about a sometime back when a young man of 20-25 years old was lying in the street in front of our house. My father had come back from the vegetable market, when he saw the man. He immediately went to the young man who was trying to say something but could not express, he started telling about some strange stories. Some people standing around said that the young man was a mad & had problems in his head. He was crying as he hadn’t eaten anything, I suppose since morning/days. My mother made some paranthas and my father kept it in front of him, it was sad sight that he could not even properly hold it. Seeing this my mother was in tears and so was my father and then my father himself fed the young man thinking he was also someone's sick child. The young man ate then slept in the street, next morning he was nowhere to be found. It was days/weeks later my parents got to know, that the young man was practically disowned by his family members as he was diagnosed with mental illness some few years ago, they took care but later could not cope with him and was left on his own. Left to fight on his own with his mental illness of which he had no idea known to us as Schizophrenia.

Syd Barrett
Schizophrenia one out of the numerous mental illnesses. It originates from the Greek word-- Schizien "to split" and Phren " the mind" thus -splitting of the mind. It is a psychiatric diagnosis that describes mental disorder with respect to impairments in perceptions, delusions etc. Eugen Bleuler in 1908 first coined the term Schizophrenia.
A few symptoms are: - Hallucinations, Disintegrated & disorganized thinking, delusions, inapproriate reactions, psychosis etc.
The symptoms in children and adults are different. In the recent years it has been observed that it’s mostly occurs at about 18-25 years. Sad but true it cannot be cured, family members & loved ones are the people who can help one cope up with the illness. The ability to care for a schizophrenic is associated with emotional strength & determination, financial reserves & above all time.

Thus Family & loved ones are the BIGGEST HELP!!! It has been found out that family support is a biggest factor in improving from the situation.


Schizophrenia Support Group 
  1. Family should not shun responsibility of the person, not to feel ashamed that someone in the family has it.
  2. Acceptance is very important. Cursing your fate, feeling guilty, blaming one another never helps. Mourn, forgive and move on. To act out of resentment & drama between family members makes it worse for the person being treated also.
  3. It is a MEDICAL ILLNESS and requires treatment with responsibility.
  4. It is NO ONE's FAULT, essential that the person is diagnosed & treated well.
  5. A caring, safe environment that allows for as much freedom of action is very much required; Hostility & criticism in the environment at home should be reduced or eliminated.
  6. Important that the person takes prescribed medication as per the doses and family members need to ensure that it strictly followed else it leads to severe relapse.
  7. In extreme cases side effects to person happens thus important to inform the doctor at very onset.
  8. Educate oneself with the pattern of the schizophrenic person. Relapses are frequent, some patience is required--emotional straining does no good.
  9. Individual psychotherapy is essential for the person.
  10. Essential to make a daily routine at least an attempt is required. If possible help them work and find a job. Yes-- A Job!!
  11. Compliment the person on achieving goals; remember criticism does a lot of harm.
  12. Set attainable goals for them.
  13. Realize that caring for the person is emotionally, mentally, physically tiring & exhausting. Important to take care of yourself too.
  14. Often spouses, children or parents get drained to a very large extend in the caring process -- after effects show later.
  15. Important to have regular meetings with the doctor, and keep note of the behavioral pattern in the person & discuss on every meeting.
  16. Talk to the person frequently; listen to them esp. when they are in trouble.
  17. Sometime Schizophrenics get into Substance abuse like marijuana, or other drugs under no state and the person should get into that situation before or after diagnosis.
  18. Boost up the moral confidence of the person, they can lead normal, independent & satisfying lives too just like any of us.
So this in the end, the single most important thing: Is to love, care, appreciate and help the patient move ahead and live an Independent life like an independent individual. Thank you for reading this article and if you ever come across a person with Schizophrenia try and help them in some way. Worse thing to do is to leave the person dieing on the road and let them cope with illness by themselves.

So Always Take care & cope with a reason called as HOPE.

Friday, 25 May 2012

Reiki - intention box

Buddha- Consciousness with Perception
Reiki as we know is beyond time and space which focuses on the power of intend for manifestation. There are different ways. All your intentions,only if its for the higher good for self or others is fulfilled by Reiki.Reiki Intention box is a container with the different intention slips which are healed by the Reiki healer.

How to make an intention slip and Reiki Intention box:-

  • Take a shoe box or any box in which the lid is closed and is not easily open. Make a small hole or cut in the lid. 
  • Paint it , color it as per your desire, heal the Reiki intention box with the symbols as desired especially for past/future healing. 
  • Mentally draw all the symbols on the box / use crystals and keep it in a designated place away from your bed.
  • On a daily basis or whenever need write the intention or desire of event for healing - if its a future event which you want to manifest first write -" Name , age /year of birth of person"; secondly the intention or event that it has already occurred and the person is happy ; lastly thank reiki and give your love.
  • At the back of the Reiki Intention slip write the three symbols learnt in reiki level 2 {heal the slip( if you want )}
  • Roll or fold the reiki intention slip and drop it in the Box.
  • Hold the box between your palms( put physical healing symbols on both the palms first).
  • Heal the box with reiki and universal energy on a daily basis. 
  • Once the intention is manifested take the intention slip and burn it or on a monthly basis or once in two months heal and then burn the reiki intention slips ( saying " Universal Energy manifest our intentions of which is for the higher good"
  • Incase of a specific ailment for an individual make a seperate smaller reiki intention box.

Benefits of Reiki Intention Box
Reiki Intention Box
  •  Helps to release worries, its another way for providing distant healing also.
  • If pictures are in intention box helps to maintain harmonious relationships. 
  • Helps to heal or manifest multiple desires or requests at a time.
  • Some people have very sensitive auras at times, so intention slip to faster healing can be beneficial.
  • Incase of group healing - the group members can send distant healing to the healee
  • The healer can use multiple means on the healee eg: crystals/specific prayers or angels which the person would be uncomfortable in face-face interaction ( here also permission is needed)
  • Helps to identify goals and dreams and desires.
  • Good for initial distant reiki healing.
  • In my view it can be created by anyone who doesnt even know reiki - as a) we all have the power to heal and b) Sometimes just need to write down what we feel
So ahead, be creative and experiment. Put all those thoughts and worry inside ( take it off your chest ) or discover and express your desires and go to your wonderland.


 

Wednesday, 23 May 2012

Dhumavati & Queen of Swords

Dhumavati- Smoke, Crow, Shakti without Shiva
Dhumavati - Of the 10 forms of Mahavidyas one form is Dhumavati. She is usually depicted as eternal widow  ( ugly and unappealing)and symbolizes the Shakti without Shiva. She is powerful and her magic/divya shakti is esp.for the witches and tantriks. Dhumavati is the key keeper and controller of the spirits esp. female churail or negative spirits. The crow is her Vahan ( like shani), lives on cremation grounds.& associated with moonless night. Embodiment of "tamasic gun".



Few Elements of Maa Dhumavati & what her energies symbolise  :-
Ma Dhumavati- Yantra

  • Bestows the lesson of life and death.
  • To learn that unorganized energy is at times the key to awareness  ( more like Rahu)
  • Timelessness and high elevated state of samadh by years of practices and aloneness-- be in void 
  • Negatives aspects of life- humiliation defeat, loss, sorrow, loneliness with a message that these are important in growth of an individual and soul.
  • Illusion is just maya and needs to be cut through by hardships sometimes or as per karmic record & detachment is sometimes is the only ways
  • Our fears in life and how as a soul we need to face it without illusion.
  • Ma Dhumavati is complete in herself and therefore portrays that one needs to be also complete in oneself for moksh ( i.e: death leading to transformation)
  • She makes us understand the lesson that death, confusion, aloneness and thereby the related magic.
  • On the devi and tantrik power form levels- it means she will bring depression and poverty to one's enemies.Also meaning that when one is on its spiritual path she will aid in progress by these means.
Her Mantra -" Dhung Dhund Dhumavathi Thhah Thhah" 


Queen of Sword
Queen of Swords- Of the 4 Queens of the Tarot Deck and the Queen of Air or reason. She is usually depicted in a barren place with a crow flying above and has a sword to cut the illusion and wears lowly clothes despite being a queen. She also represents a widow or single ( divorced/heartbroken ) woman

Key Elements of Queen of Swords :-
  • Bitter, cynical and wise beyond one's years and depicts that sometimes wisdom is gained by hardships only
  • Steely determination, pioneering leadership, courage and leadership.
  • No-Nonsense attitude and iron fist to deal with things
  • Clear thinking and ability to think and express freely.
  • Stay away from lies deception, illusion, false ego- literally cuts it through
  • Independent and see life clearly.

Co-relation and similar & merging energy patterns of Ma Dhumavati and Queen of Swords, (ofcourse that Dhumavati is worshipped also)
  • Dissolving of Illusion and false ego
  • Embodiments of " unsatisfied desires"
  • Symbolise- Death - either of end of relationship, end of ego, end of attitude.
  • Both have a spear/sword to cut through whatever doesnt work
  • Mean that situations or people in life ask us to look within us inwards as opposed to looking at outward beauty which is time related.
  • " Void" that exists before creation ( chaos) and void after it dissolves ( death / transformation-again chaos)
  • Both depict unpaired members & associated with widows, tantriks etc. of the society, usually someone alone and not accepted
  • Both mean that sometimes hardships , humiliation make us like steel and courageous -sometimes necessary.
  • Dwell or related to " wounds of the world"
  • Relates to one's who follow the right path /dakshin marga
  • Widows esp. when aged sadhaks have tremendous knowledge and should at any times be treated with respect.Every woman should be respected irrespective of age/status/looks etc.

Dhumavati mantra- Protects, clears  illusions, aids in her practices /siddhis
I haven't recited it, but feel free to recite &initiate her
energies  under a specific teacher


If you have more understanding of the Ma Dhumavati and Queen of swords , please share.





Tuesday, 22 May 2012

Panchamakara

Panchamakara means Panch= 5 and Makara  = tattvas ( elements). The Pancha-Makara were ways to cleanse and transcend the mind. Each "M" stands for a particular practice. In Vamachara /left handed path the meaning is taken literally & practiced ( based on the sub-group) whereas in Right Handed Path /Dakshinachara consider the subtle and unintended meaning of the same.


Following are the Panchamakaras  in brief :-

Tattva/Element Name
Meaning in Left Handed Path
Meaning in right handed path
Tattva relates to
Madya
Wine/Alcohol/Bhang
Sweet Nectar/Amrit
Air
Mamsa
Meat
Control of Speech
Fire
Matysa
Fish
Control of Nadis ( literally means ida and pingala ) through yoga and pranayama
Water
Mudra
Parched grain usually eaten with meat
Posture of Yoga and spiritual company, satsang, prayers
Earth
Maithuna
Sex with no orgasm
Samadhi
Ether

If you are interested to know more, you can read up or contact a person who practices the elements in their spiritual consciousness and growth.